Special people

Being pregnant has been a beautiful thing. It, of course, has had it's unpleasant moments and worrisome times, but I have enjoyed every minute of it and I know there will be a part of me that misses Seth being inside of me once he joins the world. I'll miss the flips and kicks that remind me to smile - but then i'll have his cute little self to look at and have that reminder : ) 

Besides the joys of pregnancy itself I have been amazed at how it has changed the relationships in my life - in a good way of course! I wasn't quite sure how Jeremy would react when I told him our exciting news. It certainly didn't take as long as both of us had expected and I'll admit, that had me a little concerned for his sake! From the first moment afterwards until this day (and I know it will continue), he has been...I don't even know what word to put in there! It has been incredible to watch him transform into the Daddy role already. The way he is towards me, towards Seth - it's beautiful and I love it. 

Then there's my sister.

We haven't always had the best relationship. Growing up had it's rough patches. We grew out of that stage and although our relationship wasn't lacking anything, we still didn't talk but every 2 weeks or so (although those were usually 2 hour conversations). Now - I have to talk to my sister at LEAST 3 times a week. Although our phones hate each other and continually hang up on each other when they don't do that with any other person! We have talked about this and I have no idea why things are different now. It's not like we love each other more now that I'm pregnant. There is just so much to talk about and so much more that we can relate to each other with. I cherish our relationship and know because of that, her and Seth are going to have the best bond and I can't wait to see that transform.

And then there's my mom. *choke*

Our relationship hasn't changed at all, but there's just something about your mom when you're pregnant. I don't know how to explain it. Leaving NY is never easy after our visits and I get emotional every time, but this time, I cried for quite a while once we hit the road and the aching feeling took a lot longer to leave than it normally does. She's my mom and I need her. I get a little anxious when I think about the fact that she won't be here for Seth's delivery. Although we are only planning on having Jeremy in the room, it would be nice to know she is right there. But I know she is coming and will be with us for a good while afterwards - and that is going to be the best. It really is true what they say - the best part about me having her as my mom is that my kids will get her as a Grandma : ) 

And I can't leave out my Dad : )


Our relationship hasn't changed either, but I sure do love him and can't wait to see Bompa with Seth : )

Birthday weekend

Sunday was Jeremy's birthday. The big TWO-FIVE : ) I turned 25 in September and was considered old until he himself is now 25 and it's okay again lol We had a great weekend. Relaxing, having fun and we both even had Monday off to stretch it out a little bit more! 

He did some golfing and spotted this little guy...

There were presents of course...

Lots of video game time with his new game and chair...

And of course, cheesecake! (Sorry Dad)

We had an unexpected trip to the doctors as well, but i'm thankful that it wasn't a trip to the ER. I mentioned in my last baby update post that I have been having swelling in my left foot. Not a big concern but my doctor told me to watch for a few different things as I am at an increased risk for blood clots with pregnancy. I started noticing that when I walked I had some tenderness in my calf and I quickly became paranoid. I waited a bit and then called the after hours doctor. She talked to me a bit and then told me that she wanted me to go to the ER. Pain/swelling in your leg while pregnant is a blood clot until proven otherwise and she couldn't diagnose me over the phone. I hung up, started crying and Jeremy and I got ready to go. During that process and talking to my mom the doctor called me back again. She had called the ER to let them know I was coming and the ER doctor told her that they wouldn't be able to do an ultrasound at the hour it was on the weekend, so it would be pointless for me to come in. Although i'm thankful, what in the world? Aren't you the Emergency Room?! LOL So she told me stay off my feet as much as possible for the rest of the night, keep it elevated with ice and call my doctor first thing in the morning. So that's what we did. As soon as I got a hold of the doctor's office they told me to come right in. Unfortunately, my doctor was on call so I had to see someone different, but he was SUPER nice. I'm actually thankful to have gotten to meet a different doctor within the practice in case I am unable to have mine for Seth's delivery. Jeremy and I were both pleased with the doctor we saw. He measured my legs, checked my pulses and quickly said that I didn't have a blood clot. He said we could do an ultrasound if I needed the peace of mind but I trusted him. He told me what a blood clot would look/feel like and checked on Seth - he was happy as could be. I'm thankful for my supportive husband who puts Seth and I before anything else, especially when it comes to our health. And i'm thankful to be surrounded by a great team of doctors who listen to my concerns and ease my anxiety! 

We realized this weekend that April is fast ending, which means we both have about a month left of work and about a month after that before Seth comes! EEK! 

28 weeks

My oh my how time flies when you're having fun! 

I can NOT believe that we are in the third trimester with less than 12 weeks left to go! It seems like just yesterday we were announcing our news. Heck, it seems like just yesterday I was praying for our little one! I had my 28 week checkup yesterday. Everything looks great! His heart beat was at 130 but he quickly start moving around and bumped it up to 140. She measured my fundal height for the first time and I'm measuring at 26 which she said is great. I have been experiencing some braxton hicks contractions. I actually have been for quite some time now and just thought that it was Seth moving around, but while we were in NY my sister informed me that it was actually braxton hicks! My doctor said there is nothing to be concerned about until I have more than 2 an hour. At this point I would say I'm having maybe 3 a day, but I will start keeping track of them a little better since I know what to look for. I've started to produce some milk (sorry to the guys who are reading) and she said that is a great sign of my production and that I should have no issues when it comes to that, so that's a relief! I've been having some issues with my left foot swelling (yes, just my left). She said normally when it's just one side it's on the right, but there is nothing to be concerned about as long as it goes away with elevation, etc. I was concerned that it would make getting exercise rough, but she said it's actually good for it, even when it's swollen as long as I elevate it afterwards. I got my RhoGAM shot which in simplest terms is because my blood type may produce antibodies against the baby since we don't know what blood type he is yet, so it's just a precaution at this point and depending on his blood type after birth I may need another shot. The craziest part is that I have all of my remaining appointments scheduled! I go in 3 weeks, then 3 weeks after that, 2 weeks after that and then weekly until our little guy shows up! So blessed to have a healthy checkup. We can't wait to meet him! 

Thomas Shower

We had a Buffalo Bills themed shower on the Thomas side. It was super cute and we had a blast! 

Cutest little cheerleader ever! 

Trying to throw "loaded" diapers into our basket...

Changing the baby football station...

I think Jeremy had "poop" on his hand : )

Ice cream cake! 

Can't wait for our newest team member to get here : ) 

Thank you to Amanda, Jeremy's mom and everyone who helped out! It was amazing! 

Meeting Lily

Miss Liliann was born in the beginning of February and we were finally able to meet her when we were up visiting a couple weeks ago. I'm so glad that it wasn't much longer than it was. What a sweet little girl, full of things to say and the biggest smile I've ever seen on a 2 month old! 

Look at that dimple! 

She has the best big brother! 

I hope their bond always stays this strong! I can't believe it's going to be Christmas before we see them again : ( 

Family pictures

With everyone there it was the perfect opportunity to take some family pictures! It would have been complete if my brother and his family had been able to be there! 

Oh Jonathan...

Gimpy Dad :)

Marissa had to take a picture with Grandma to show that she is almost as tall as her! Seems like just yesterday she was a teeny tiny baby.